How to teach your child to resist aggression and violence

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Daria Nevskaya talks about how to identify mobbing and teach a child to resist emotional abuse.

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- What helps us identify the situation of mobbing among teenagers? Of course, children's literature that describes similar situations is literature that we should read with children and discuss. Then we will understand how children feel about the situation of persecution and bullying, whether they will help those who are offended, whether they are aggressors and emotional rapists or potential victims. Children's books - I talk about them a lot at my public lectures and during trainings - are divided into books that only touch on this topic, are related to only one episode, or bullying and persecution is the main topic of the entire book, or they are books that are a psychological guide to action on how to survive in a situation of teenage bullying...

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