Famous actor Dolph Lundgren talks about what his “freeze” reaction to his father's violence led to. This is a very common reaction by teenagers to any long-term violence against them. I want parents who believe that children are “hardening” in the fight against aggressors and that this is a “good school of life” for them to understand this. So, most children who have experienced violence from relatives or peers most often react this way: they die in body and soul, get used to their situation, and then begin to profess deviant behavior themselves and burn all living things around them. This is why children should not be left in an aggressive and hostile environment for a long time.
Yes, they may do it themselves, but then, after a while, you won't recognize your child. He will be angry, cynical and without signs of empathy or humanism. By the way, parents who leave their child alone with trouble can also spread his anger and hatred. Remember the unhappy Khachaturian sisters. They lived in a state of “freeze” for a long time, and then their fear and hatred broke out. That is why I insist that children should be picked up from school if the school administration turns a blind eye to cases of bullying and mobbing. And, of course, the child must be protected from aggressive relatives. Watch the actor's confession to understand what's going on in your child's soul when he is systematically humiliated and unable to respond.
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