MOBBING NO

Dirty from the royal hut

10.3.2021

I wonder if Harry and Meghan Markle did the right thing to air their dirty laundry in the royal hut? I have been following what has been happening to them since the very beginning of their life together at court and am increasingly convinced that they are in a rather stereotypical situation for any newlyweds. The family tries to break their daughter-in-law, doesn't accept her values, and bully her when they realize they've got a tough cookie. What should the young husband do in this situation? That's what Harry did - get Meghan out of trouble and drive away. Most young families stay in the same city, and sometimes in the same apartment as their husband or wife, under very strong pressure from older relatives. It happens that young families break up as a result of family bullying. Harry tried to protect his family - not the royal family, but his own family by distinguishing between the concepts of family/family and the family he created. Meghan has been subjected to unprecedented harassment all these years, and in an interview, Harry admitted that the story with his mother Diana happened even in the worst case scenario. You can imagine that Meghan really violated royal etiquette and generally accepted behavioral norms. Princess Diana also broke these rules. Psychologists view deviant behavior as a response to pressure and bullying. I think these are exactly the cases that provoked such a response from the Queen's daughters-in-law.
I am absolutely convinced that Harry and Meghan should have told the world about family bullying. And the fact that they decided to share their feelings with the whole world is very important for them. Meghan and Harry became stronger and united, overcoming all these difficulties together. Will this recognition make it easier for them to live? I don't think so. Most likely, the tabloids will continue to bully them, and the family has already taken retaliatory steps to accuse Meghan of harassing assistants and staff. But I am convinced that Harry and Meghan's children will have more freedom and will have choices that Harry and William did not have. At the end of the day, experience shows that choosing to care and break up always opens up new opportunities and horizons for bullying victims.

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